If someone is described as loving hard, it means they love intensely. This can be a good thing, but it’s important to understand that sometimes loving too hard can also be dangerous. Here are some signs that you may be someone who loves too hard:
When someone loves you, they’re on your mind and in every single waking thought you have. Their happiness is PARAMOUNT to yours. You want to make them happy, even if it’s at your expense. You will go out of your way to make them happy, even if it’s embarrassing or difficult for you.
A guy who loves you hard will respect you on every level – your values, religious beliefs, emotional needs, physical needs, general outlook of life and your flaws. He’ll do more than penetrate you; he’ll give you the kind of soul-f*cking that happens when your limbs are intertwined and the depth of your conversation becomes the entertainment for date night.
He wants to share in your success and grand vision for your future. He’ll be your biggest fan and cheerleader.
Alternatively, if you find yourself always changing your plans and disappearing when it comes to the ones who mean the most to you, it’s time to work on learning to be a more stable person. It’s not easy for others to love you when they don’t know if you can be trusted. You need to learn to be more dependable in order for people to love you.